Respect
Love and respect come hand in hand. When you love someone you respect their views, the way they are. You value their opinion, respect their privacy and their right to be happy and do what you can to make them happy. Without respect in a relationship it is hard for trust to grow between a couple and is ultimately a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
Being together
Enjoying or loving spending time together and enjoying each other’s company is important. When you’re older and your children have moved out or are away at college or school, you need to still enjoy that company. It is also necessary to be able to spend time with your friends and doing hobbies that you enjoy.
Not holding anger
Being able to forgive, forget and let go when you have down days and argue is vital for a healthy relationship. Many individuals in a relationship hold on to anger or remember past arguments and then bring them back up, which only opens old wounds.
Listening
Being able to talk, listen and be heard is very important. A couple will need to talk about their worries and their feelings with each other. It's important to be able to talk freely when you need to get things off your chest, with an open heart and without being judged - this is the sign of a healthy relationship.
Being yourself
Being able to be yourself is very important as it means that your other half loves you for you and not trying to change you in any way. They accept all the great things about you and your flaws, which many couples find hard to do.
Taken from xinmsn.com
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Okay this is just pure lameness. I posted it after reading it from xinmsn. Haha. Lol. So don't think i'm like so pro to actually write such chim stuff uh. xD
Anyways, I'll be flying off on 19th December, so this shall be my last post before flying off luh. Well, excited? Kinda. It's 'kinda', because i'm the planner this time round, again. So well, i'm already prepared for what's ahead of me, like what we're going to see etc. But on another note, I hope it would be fun for everyone going on the trip, which would mean, Daddy, Mummy, Jie, Kor, 二姑姑, 公公, Li Shan, Han Wen, and me! :D
So now, for the depressing time. Homework. Yes. Homework D: Well, I think i'm left with the same amount of homework as from the last time I posted, which is very fail lurh. I haven't progressed much with my homework this week, shitty! D: And then it's like i'm flying off for a week, returning on the 26th December. Choir practice on the 27th, and then before you realise it, it will be 2011, and then zoom, fast-foward to 4th January, which is the day that the school reopens. And then 2nd/3rd week will be Common Test 2011, plus 'O' Level SPA. OMGAWD. I'm going to die maaaaaan. Gah, shitty me.
Ohya, congratulations to those who did well for their 'N' Levels, including Li Shan! :D She got a freaking 12 points, if i'm not wrong. Ugh, and this reminds me that we're also going to get our 'O' Level Chinese results back on January, the 2nd/3rd week. Wah. There's so many things coming up for January 2011. Gosh.
Okay, I have no idea how I want to end this post. I don't feel like ending it off yet, but I don't know what else to continue typing. Zzz -.-
Oh okay, I remember le. Yesterday. Met up with Lee Boon and 'studied'. Wondering why it's apostrophed? Because obviously we didn't really study. Throughout those few hours, we spent most of our laughing at really hilarious stuff. Lol, shall not reveal what they are xD But anyway, it was a really fun session luh, not actually meant to study after all lor.. But never mind bah, consider it a break for myself.. which I come to think of it now, I don't deserve it. Zzz. Omg, i'm just contradicting myself.
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Okay, so to end off this post,
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