When you love someone, be it a friend, family or lover, you...
- Seek comfort in their presence, whether it's words of reassurance, or physical comfort in the form of hugs etc
- Feel secure knowing that they are there with you
- Feel belonged
- Look for them to be yourself
- Look to them for your daily dose of fun/joy/laughter
- Advise them when necessary
- Pick them out on their bullshit and help them get their shit together when they need your reminders
- Seek help from them to fix the problems in your life, be it techie issues, academic problems etc
- Understand their needs and wants
- Are willing to go through thick and thin with them
- Be there for them
- Love them for their flaws and habits and everything that makes them, them.
- Put yourself/your heart out there, knowing that you might get hurt
- Wish the best for them no matter what happens
- Don't ever want to leave them
- Hope for the best that you'll remain in contact and things will turn out better in the end.
Love is not a feeling; love is a choice.
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